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Why is this happening?!
Alright so for about the past two years I tend to get physically sick when i try to be intimate with a girl. Now it doesn't happen everytime but about 90% of the time I do. Sometimes it happens when I start making out and sometimes I'm ok until we start doing more. It varies everytime and I don't know what it could be. I'm not nervous or anything like that I'm excited and happy it's happening so I have no idea what's wrong with me. Please anyone have any advice?:(
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I'm just wondering how old you are? Your age may have a lot to do with why you get this way.
First there is the excitement of are you going to get there? Then there is always the performance anxiety that all males suffer from. Will I last long enough to satisfy her? Is my member big enough for her? Is it long enough for her? What if I get her pregnant? You may not be actively thinking about these things but in the back of your mind these things are always there. Then there is the big one, if you are a teenager, what will happen if we get caught.
Those thoughts have been on the minds of teenagers since the beginning of mankind. Today you need to worry about STDs and AIDS and other viruses that can be passed with and without condom usage.
Yea this is a lot to have on your mind even if it is just in the back of your mind. I think I would get ill too. THe biggest worry I had as a teenager is making sure to get the stains out of the backseat of the old mans Chevy.
Stop worrying about performance. First if your a teenager she is probably not anymore experienced then you are. As the saying goes practice makes perfect. If you want to be a great lover ask the girl what she looks so you can concentrate on her satisfaction.
As for disease, take all the precautions the taught you in sex ED. Know your partner. If you or your partner have a cold sore, don't kiss each other. A cold sore is a form of the Herpes Virus and you can pass it to each other through kissing and oral sex, so don't do them.
In other words take precautions and just relax and enjoy the moment.
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