Question Posted Wednesday September 28 2011, 10:03 pm
Hi! I'm a 13, almost 14 yearold girl who hasn't had her first kiss yet. There's a guy I like who likes me but I don't want a boyfriend and whenever we try and hangout we can't. I want him to be my first kiss but I don't know if it would be awkward cause I'm nervous and not exactly sure what I would be doing. I know that im supposed to like turn my head a little, pucker my lips, then what? I'm not prude I'm just a little scared to have my first kiss. He's had his but it was with a girl he barely knew and he wants to pretend it didn't happen. I know this cause were friends too haha. But uhm any advice or tips help! Thank you so much!(:
The fact is you are good friends which is a plus. No matter what happens he's going to be cool with you afterward. I would take the reins here as you know you want that kiss from him badly and he's more unsure about kissing than you. Ask him to kiss you or be honest and tell him you've wanted him to and go from that.
Tell him you don't want a boyfriend but wanted to experience this with someone like him who doesn't judge. If you did wind up with him as a boyfriend it may be the best person to be with given your history. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
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