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What should I tell her?
I have a friend.SHe's 16/f,and her boyfriend broke up with her,over a religion difference.So she dated someone else to make him jealous.So he then went out with her bff to make her jealous.She doesn't know what to do.What should I tell her?
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Tell her not to date someone just out of retaliation. That's wrong and she needs to see that as not being fair. That's the first item to discuss.
Tell her that he's not worth it and an idiot to be frank for dumping her over religious convictions. It says a lot for him and his character.
The issue with her best-friend is one that you better not get involved in. She has to see for herself that she was betrayed and address this person when ready. Be there for her and listen if she expresses her feelings about all of this.
She needs to see she's lucky not being with this jerk and that her religious and moral choices come first and that the right person respects that. She's lucky no matter how much she liked him to be free of someone as shallow and weak as him.
Tell her to wait a while and let things simmer down so she can think straight and then confront them both and move on. There will be tons of guys willing to date her and this is just one loser who missed out in a sea of millions. Be there for her and do more listening than offering of opinion at this point. This is what she needs most now.
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