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okay just a heads up this might get kind of confusing and i feel like such a little kid asking for advice on here but oh well.so background theres this boy ive known pretty much my whole life and when we were younger he moved away and than moved back in like 6th grade. when he told me he was moving back we started talking all the time (via aim which was cool back than) and once he moved back we slowly became close and and he'd call me (yes this was a big deal in the 7th grade!) and we always had something between us but yet we were young and at that age its dumb to "go out" but for christmas he got me a braclet it was cute. as the years went on into freshmen year we started distancing and he started dating my friend who would always joke that he chose her over me and than i did something pretty messed up and i told on him and pretty much got him kicked out of school and messed up his life. i think i had anger for him and i not being close anymore. so as the years went on we never talked and id always try apologizing to him cause id find myself thinking about him and he never accepted it he hated me pretty much. than my senior year of highschool i saw him again here and there and he was fine with me but we werent friends again or anything close to that. now heres where i need help. he went to jail for some trouble he got into and something told me to write him. when he wrote back i was surprised and estatic. like literally beaming from ear to ear. he said he'd keep writing and he told someone he was really happy i wrote him. now put aside the fact that hes in jail but idk what keeps me coming back to him. like i want to be with him and i dont know what to do. should i just let go of the feelings cause there probably just from the past or what?
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It seems when ya'll were younger there was something you shared. Over time though people grow and change. You can still be in someone's life in a non romantic way. It seems like he really needs a friend at this point in his life. You shouldn't just wait around for him in the romantic sense. If something were to come from your relationship, great. But if not just be there for him as a friend.
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