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So sick of being the constand outcast
Ok so im a 18 male and in college. Im so sick of people always thinking im a weirdo or mean or something. I try to be the nicest person ever and when ever i try to talk to people (girls mostly) they wont talk to me and if they do they talk once then ill go to talk again the next time and they blow me off and dont answer. Last night people were saying they need help in a class *a girl* and this one guy says ill help you and she didnt say anything then i said the same and her friend was like hell no..like why do i come off as such a creep. all the asshole guys get all these girls and nice guys like me get screwed over all the time im so sick of it. people always look at me as a weirdo when i try to be nice and help people? what the hell. it seriously gets annoying...help
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Hi there, you really shouldn't be wondering why they don't want to talk to you, but why you want to talk to them. If you ask a girl if she needs help and she is horrible to you, do you really want to speak to someone like that anyway? The "asshole" guys get the girls because they're not sensitive about it and don't care. Do you really want to attract girls who like assholes? Here is an article which may help you further: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
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Hey,
I want you to relax. First off, know that there's nothing wrong with you. At 18, most people are either still trying to find themselves or settling into a young adult mentality that they are content with for the time. My suggestion to you would be to re-evaluate who you're involving yourself with. Just like you feel like people are always out-casting you, I'm sure there are young ladies whom you're overlooking that feel the EXACT same way you do. Try to connect moreso with them, or those who may be more mature. The whole "outcast" attitude is very elementary, and there are other girls and guys on a much higher level.
Hope I helped =)
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