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COMPLICATED BOYFRIEND BEHAVIOR... NEED ADVICE!!
I have known this guy from high school for almost 7 years now, we talked/hooked-uo off and on all through hs and we've officially been dating for 4 months now. He is a virgo and is relatively shy and emotionally reserved which makes things kinda of hard. We usually talk and text everyday, and his phone has been broken for the past month or so. Even still, he has managed to stay in touch, however the screen on the phone is cracked making it a little difficult... and he has physically demonstrated this to me. However, lately he's been acting different. I haven't seen him in almost a week, and he usually wants to see me every couple of days or so. He still initiates conversations sometimes... but they don't seem to last. I texted him on thursday telling him I missed him and got no response for two days after calling him three times and texting him twice. FInally when I texted yesterday (saturday) saying that if he needs space or he wants to break up he needs to just say so... and he responded. He said I should know that his phone is messed up and that he had just gotten a replacement. He continued the conversation normally, saying he missed me and asking how I've been... so I figured everything is okay. He texted me again today saying hey, we exchanged a few texts then when he asked me what I did last night and I responded asking what he did... he completely stopped answering. I texted him again with "..." and 4 hours later... no answer. WHAT IS GOING ON? why would he be doing this and how should I react? It's driving me crazy... our relationship appeared to be perfectly fine.. we just went to the movies on monday and he paid and acted as affectionate and normal as always. Someone help!
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Your boyfriend may be feeling smothered, Not all guys will admit it but this could be the case. Your question tells me that you are sketchy of his behavior maybe your boyfriend doesn't like the idea that you are constantly wanting to know what he is doing and expecting him to text you all the time. Most guys don't like texting 24.7 that is how guys are. We are lazy and like doing things at our time of convenience. If you feel the need then take a day off and see if he contacts you, Try giving the guy his space. If he doesn't contact you at all in a days time then tell him you feel you two need to sit down and talk about somethings. Talk it out with HIM, None of us know the exact situation of your relationship and we are limited on giving advice.
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