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How do I keep him interested, without him thinking I am trying to start a relationship?
me: 18/f ben: 21/m
Basically, Ben is an old friend that I reconnected with after not hanging out with him for 3 years. We hit it off instantly once again. Hes funny, goofy, responsible, talented, respectful, sexy.. lol.
The thing is, due to past relationships, we agreed to just hang out and not get into anything serious to quickly.. and Im totally fine with this. Weve already made out one night drunk at his show, and we talk at least once a day on the phone and text.
I want to keep things interesting/sexy/exciting without him thinking that Im trying to jump into anything. What can i do to achieve this and keep him interested? Thanks :)
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Be flirty with other guys, too. Dress flirty. If you see him chatting it up with another girl, don't get jealous. Just pretend it doesn't bother you. If you keep it casual like he wants, he'll love you all the more for it.
He's already interested in you, so it's not like you have to win him over. Keep him interested by keeping an open mind. If another guy wants to buy you a drink, let him. If another guy wants to dance, dance. I think he'll appreciate the fact that you're open to whatever, and it might make him like you more to see how outgoing and fun you are.
Good luck!
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