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TuscanSun,
Just an update on what has happened. My wife sent a mail and said we will talk when I get home. She said we will talk and see what happens. This could be a good thing or not. I explained that I had kept many things bottled up inside, after our sons death. I suppose I have never really let out my feelings on this matter. Hopefully when we have our talk I have to put everything on the table. I feel that I have not shown enough affection towards her. I never realy openned up to anyone before. If I am to open up it should be to my wife. I should not be scared about doing this. My wife is very depressed at the moment as well. She also said that she wants to do whats best for the both of us so we do not have regrets in the future. Should I lay everthing on the table or hold back. I am affraid I might say something that will realy push her away from me. I suppose I need to because if I do not I will regret it.
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Her wanting to talk is a good thing. That means her decision isn't final, just something she's thinking about. It could be attributed to the fact that she is depressed. This is good news!
You absolutely should hold NOTHING back. That will fix nothing. You need to get everything on the table and let her know exactly how you feel, and she should do the same. Communication is the KEY to marriage. You need to be able to express yourselves openly and honestly to have any sort of long-term relationship.
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