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squirting: Why can't I do it?
My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. We like to get intimate a lot and try new things. Well he asked me to try to squirt when i orgasm. I've never done it before. i did some research and found out a few things like the G spot and that when you squirt it comes out of the urethra, not the vagina. We tried it a few times but it doesn't work! How come I wont squirt?? I also read that only a few women can successfully do this. But my boyfriend was bummed out when it didn't work for me.. I want to satisfy him and make it work! Any tips or anything I should know about it? thanks!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Trouble Reaching Orgasm?
Every girl can do this...have your b/f perform oral sex on you while simultaneously using his fingers to stimulate your g-spot. When you feel yourself having an orgasm, DON'T push him away...tell him to keep going. You will feel something super warm come out, and just let it happen....it's AMAZING.
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As your research showed you; squirting is not something every woman can do. It is nothing against you, your womanhood or his sexual prowess. Which is probably what is bumming him out the most.
I once did some research on this subject for another questioner. I don't remember the exact percentage given but it was a very low the number of women who reported that they squirted on orgasm in this one study I read.
If you and your BF are sexually compatible and he gets you to orgasm each time you make love then his sexual prows are better than most men. You should tell him so.
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When you're about to get off, if you ever feel like you're going to pee DON'T HOLD BACK! This sensation means you're about to squirt. That's about all I guess I can really tell you, I think it's something your body will do naturally at the given moment. Good luck.
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