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getting along with girls
So i am a freshman in college and am appart of a sports team with several other girls. ive known them for some time prior to getting here but i still dont feel like im really apart of the group. the older girls are great and everyone is nice but the freshman girls are cliquey and really not my style. my roommate isnt much like me besides the fact we both play lacrosse. the only time im really enjoying all of their company is when were drinking and going to parties. i just feel like none of the girls really get me and i dont know how to get across to them.
about me..
im extremley laid back. i am neither bitchy or cliquey. i accept everyone. im not overly happy but i have been nothing but nice to all of them.
i tend to get along with guys better because they are not so bitchy. i take a while to really open up to people. im alwways nice and friendly but im a little more guarded when it comes to what im really thinking or feeling.
and i know the girls do not dislike my apperance or anything like that because i am a pretty girl and completly normal. we all wear the same type of clothes and enjoy going out the same. and of course we are all teammates. we all have a lot in common so i dont understand why i constantly feel like the outcast in the group.
the other girls are a tad more hyper. and like i said...very cliquey.
im for the most part always included in everything they do together. they just dont seem to care if im there or not.
im telling you all this because this is a hard adjustment. im states away from home and am away from all my close friends. i just feel like none of them get me, and i hate feeling like the outsider. they never really seem genuinley happy to see me and i just dont understand why. i dont want to make a big drama about this and it is only the 3rd day. im just confused and really just kind of lonley. school and sports and everything is already soo stressful i really dont need the extra stress.
so any advice in these matters would be greatly, greatly appreciated.
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It takes time to get properly acquainted with people. I suppose just hang out with them as it goes perhaps it'll change, if not then perhaps they are really not your types to be around or vice versa. Perhaps look into your hobbies and look into "after school activities". I feel its better to have friends that you have more in common with than friends who are really just there.
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