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Too shy to ask guys I am attracted to, but always hit on by guys I'm not. What do I do?
this isn't such a problem but im 15/F and I haven't had a proper relationship. I've been with guys and I've never been dumped I always dumped them. I keep missing chances like I'll talk to a fit guy and I used to be shy so even now I daren't ask for their number so he'd have to do it and when i don't it looks like i'm not interested. I sorta play hard to get but i'm not I just can't seem to get with anyone I like although I end up gettin chatted up by people I don't :((
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
I would say just be confident, or fake it. You don't have to ask the guys for their number, but act a little flirty and play a little hard to get. Don't be desperate but hint that you might be interested. Make them feel like they would be lucky to go on a date with you.
And I get hit on by guys I'm totally not into, but I just try to smile and brush it off. At least it's flattering!
For me, I didn't have a boyfriend until I was seventeen. It took me that long to be confident in myself and be comfortable enough to open up to a boy. He made me feel very comfortable, and a special guy will do that for you one day. It's okay to have butterflies and be nervous to talk to a guy, but once you get to know each other a little better things should go naturally, or it isn't meant to be.
Good luck,
-Abby
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