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adviceman my parents do know that i date a16 year old guy. my mom doesn't mind but my dad is a little uneasy.but is okay with him. they don't know that my bf wants sex. do i tell them.yes or no.
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Yes you do tell them, especially your dad. For three reasons.
First: You are as you realize way to young to be having sex. This boy is pressuring you to have sex. This is wrong for several reasons that I mentioned in my answer to you. You need your parents, especially your father to intervene before something happens you don't want to happen or you get hurt.
Second: As I also said; this boy should be dating someone closer to his own age. I could be over reacting but I have been in the position in my professional life where I rather put safety first. This boy dating someone 4 years his junior is a red flag for me. Most teenage boys, and when I was a teenage boy his age, are very well knowledgeable in the statutory rape laws. He for whatever reasons is ignoring them.
I see a pedophile in the making here. Like I said I could be wrong. Your father may agree with me and that is why he is uneasy with you seeing this boy. Tell your dad this boy is trying to convince you to have sex with him. Let dad handle it from there.
Third: This is a time for learning. At your age you need to be going out with boys closer to your own age so you can learn what dating is all about and learn how to handle a boys advances.
I'm sure your thrilled that a 16 year old boy is interested in you. My thoughts are his interest is in taking advantage of you sexually because he feels he can easily overpower your will power or physically if he so desires. He is not able to do so with a girl his own age.
I believe you are in danger if you continue to see this boy. I may not always be right but unfortunately I am rarely wrong in situations like this. I would rather tell you like I see it than possibly have to deal with the carnage later. You just have to watch the evening news to get what I mean.
Tell this boy you can't see him any more. If he continues to call you and to stalk you have your father call the police. Yes it can be that serious.
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