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long distance relationship
Currently my girlfriend is living 2 1/2 hours away from me. We see each other about once a month because of our schedules. She gets upset if I text her she says I think she is supposed to text me every minute of the day when shes off work or on breaks at work. It's not true but I never know whats going on in her life like how her son is hows work going and she gets upset because I say we don't talk. Any suggestions?
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Her actions are clearly saying that she doesn't want to talk to you. Looking from a woman's perspective, whenever someone continually talks to us, it gets annoying and we push them away. This is what she's doing. She doesn't want to talk to you or let you in her life.
If you really want to solve the problem, my best advice is for YOU to drive 2.5 hours to her place and talk to her about it face to face. Texting never solves anything. Thats how misunderstandings happen and you can never express any emotions. When you talk to someone about something serious like this, you have to talk to them about it face to face. If you decide to visit her and she still pushes you away, maybe you should give her some space and time. Instead of you always trying to fix the problem, try letting her come to you when she's ready. Who knows... maybe she will regret letting you go and it will teach her a lesson.
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