Okay so this isn't about me really. I just wanna know what does Sex feel like and how does it affect your relationship.
P.S. I'm borrowing my cousins account and I'm a female 15. About to be 16. Just Curious please answer my questions because I wanna know more about sex before I ever have sex.
JustJessOx answered Sunday July 31 2011, 11:57 am: Hey there :)
Okay well sex is different for every single person. So there is no clear cut answer as to how it feels. For example everyone knows how to describe a burn.. searing hot pain..that's something that's the same for everyone where as sex is different.
I lost my virginity with my long term boyfriend when I just turned 16. For us starting off it felt like nothing. We became frustrated and confused as to why this wasn't as amaaazing as it is made out to be.
Like you I came on here looking for answers. People explained to me that we couldn't just do it with per conceived ideas and expectations that it would never be good then.
Sex IS amazing IF you know you are 100% ready go into it completely relaxed not worrying about making it good for your partner or vice versa. and its with the right person not a one night stand or if you are pressured into it.
Sex is all about trial and error it might take a while for it to feel good. You have to know what works for you and then tell your boyfriend what you like.
Before you actually have sex it is important to play around first you know kissing touching. That way it builds up tension and excitement and you feel amazing before you actually have sex. Orgasms are different for everyone and you can achieve them from stimulation before hand that's very important especially for girls as it is not as easy for us to orgasm as it is for men.
Generally it feels like tension building up and building up its almost too sensitive at first but you keep going and then it releases. It is like an electrifying sensation passes over your body its very hard to describe but once you become experienced and know what works for you and how to do it techniques and stuff it is great :)
As for your relationship it makes you closer. You become more comfortable around each other and able to talk about sexual issues that may have been awkward before.
Just make sure your ready and your not expecting mind blowing sex when you first start and you will get there.. its all about experimenting before sex which makes it so fun and then with positions etc.
If you have any more questions please inbox me :)
Hope I helped
much <3
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