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how can one summarize this


Question Posted Saturday July 16 2011, 12:00 am

every one is full of crap because just because you feel like a nobody does not make you a nobody everyone is someone but when you are a abuse survivor it is hard to believe and

I wish I could die tonight


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hnstymtrs answered Saturday July 16 2011, 8:24 pm:
Dear "how can one summarize this",

Sometimes our problems seem so small when we compare them to the world at large. You are an abuse survivor, that means you have a different perspective on life and may feel down on yourself for any reason. Everything you experience builds your character. You simply need to take the rotten lemons that you have been supplied, add sugar, and make wine.

So much confusion, so much separation, so much anger builds up, and we as humans tend to turn negative and forget that we are all here together; for just a blink of an eye in the vast Cosmos of birth, life, and death.

We are all connected but are led to believe that we are separate from each other. The society that we live in is opposite of human nature. Human nature is togetherness, peace, harmony, love, and most important, forgiveness. Society is about separation through competition, chaos through war, disharmony, and hate.

Forgiveness and love bring people together.

Dying is not the answer. How you feel about yourself talks louder than your words. The energy you put off is better communicated to others than any verbal language in existence. When you feel like a nobody, your energy is actually telling others you are feeling like a nobody. Others will pick up on this and assume you 'are' a nobody.

Do not blame others, or yourself. Forgiveness for everyone is a must. When your energy is oozing with forgiveness, everyone will pick up that warm and fuzzy feeling, and be attracted to you. Love cannot live where there is no forgiveness. When you are filled with the feeling of forgiveness and love, there is no room for 'nobody feelings'. This is because positive and negative 'feelings' cannot occupy the same space.

It was hard for me to learn to forgive anyone, being an abuse survivor as well. You are better than you are feeling now. We all feel this way at times. You are not alone, "I am he as you are me and we are all together."

Love the people that are full of crap. Forgive them for being full of crap. The energy you get from forgiveness and love will give you the power to live and love life. Remember, we are all in this together, now go make wine!

Good Luck!

Doktor Tammy

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