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My name is Kailey and i am a 17 year old female. I am struggling with my self esteem becuase of certain parts of my body. My libia is alot bigger than most other people and i dont know why. I know none of my friends are the same so i feel so left out. I have a bf and we do have sex but i wont let him go down on me.. i honestly dont know if guys think this is normal or repulsive, people have made fun of them unfront of me becauase i guess i dont seem like i would have them, i am pretty popular and my boyfriend is the sexiest guy ever.. which makes it even harder for me to be okay with this.
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Hi there.
You may be surprised to hear that your problem isn't as uncommon as you may think; women come in all shapes and sizes, that includes intimate areas!
Lets look at the big picture: you have a partner that you're sexually active with. He clearly doesn't have a problem with it otherwise he wouldn't get intimate with you.
Many women find themselves judging parts of their bodies that they believe doesn't conform to what is normal or desirable yet here you are with a boyfriend who clearly likes your body how it is. most of the time, the biggest critic of all is ourselves. If anything, guys find it more of a turn of when we aren't comfortable with who we are.
It's not so complicated with guys, if they don't like it they wont put up with it. I suggest you talk to your boyfriend and I think you'll find that he doesn't have a problem with it. Instead, just relax when youre getting intimate with him. Learn to love yourself and you will see that it's not as bad as you think it is.
I have been sexually active with many women and trust me - there is no normal size! It very much varies. You are not a alone.
If, after much hard work, you find you still cant accept your body the way it is and/or you find yourself having physical problems (e.g chafing, discomfort, irritation, etc.) then you can have it surgically reduced. In the UK this will be covered by the NHS should you meet the criteria. However, if you dont live in a country with a national health service i suggest you look into your health care insurance and have a talk with your GP on your options and your concerns.
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