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part 3</3
I talked to my parents about the situation I am in, to get there advice; both of them agree that leaving riley for another guy is wrong; so I shouldn't just break up with him because of that. And I agree. I told them about the problems me and Riley have been having lately, and my dad said that No one deserve to be talked to in that way.
As of what do I really want, that question is hard; I'd really want Jesse if the person he's claiming he is, is true. Riley has already left me once, because he had mixed emotions for his ex, and I don't see him leaving me again. Its a sense of security in that department.
I have to agree with you. Even Jesse has realized it. I'm always finding reasons of why I shouldn't be with Jessee, even if there stupid. He told me I need to stop being stupid about it, and let him prove to me that he's worth it.
I do like Jesse. Alittle more than I should, considering I have a boyfriend. The more I'm around him at work, the more I start to feel how happy I am. He has lefted me smiling more than I thought I could this week. We work together all week; but the downfall of that is, Jesse is my bosses daugher's ex boyfriend. He left her, because of the feelings he was growing for me.
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you really shouldnt listen to what your parents say.. because they dont really know what youre going through because theyre not IN your relationship and like you said in your other posts, they get attatched to people, and theyre obviously attatched to riley.
but youre still contradicting yourself.. youre saying that you agree with your parents but youre also saying that you really want to be with jesse [if hes who he says he is]
riley left you once.
you have to remember that. and just because you think he wont leave you again, you cant be sure. which bring me back to my point in your other posts.. you cant predict anything. you cant know anything for sure. sometimes, you just need to follow your heart. and your heart is pointing towards jesse right now.
jesse makes you happy. you know it, i know it, jesse knows it and so does riley. but its like, you wont let yourself be happy because youre stuck with riley who doesnt treat you as well as jesse has been treating you. and jesse is relly proving himself to you.. theres no way a guy would stick around for this stuff [or in other words, this "drama"] if that wasnt his true personality. he didnt have to leave his girlfriend. he HAD someone, but he met you and he is obviously dedicated. he IS who he says he is. he wouldnt go through all of this trouble to TRY and get you to be with him. its like.. he doesnt even know if youll choose him, and yet, hes still here. he hasnt left. hes persistent. you really have to take that into consideration.
Hes already proving to you that hes worth it, but for him to say that he'll do even more to prove that, means he really is good to you and he wants you to be happy.
you like him. you admit it. you like him alot, actually. and youre holding back because of your parents and your comfort with riley.
who cares about anyone else ? you need to start living your life YOUR way and not let anyone else sway your opinion. im only telling you the straight up facts from what youve told me so far. and right now, you want to be with jesse. its just a fact.
hope i helped, and im still here if you need more help ! :] good luck. xxo.
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