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he keeps trying but i just wont cum
Me and my boyfriend have an extremely active sex life. There was never one time he didnt nut after sex or sexual activities. I know hes always satisfied and im not saying that im not because i am but i just wont cum. Now i know the concept of women possibly not being stimulated enough to cum only throuh intercourse because the clitorus isnt getting enough stimulation but when he gives me oral sex my clit is beyond stimulated for very long periods of time and still nothing. Ive tried being relaxed while tensing up my lower area or either of those alone as well as focusing on how good it feels and breathing through my nose but nothing is getting me there. Anybody got some good experience and advice for me?
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You didn't say if you masturbated or not because that is how we learn how we liked to be stimulated and what an orgasm is. If you haven't, you should start. Take your time. Maybe use a little lubricant on the hood of your clit so it won't get sore from the friction of your fingers against it.
The problem, though, is that you are indeed too focused on it and your nervousness about it is killing your ability to climax. Once you do have one, I think you will be fine.
Here, try this:
Sit on top of him with his penis inside you. Close your eyes, let your muscles go limp and then begin undulating your hips back and forth while also rubbing your clit against his pubic bone. Focus only on the sensations in your groin. You are getting stimulated two ways by doing this. Don't stop doing it until you have cum. If he has cum first then oh well. You can always go back for a second round after he gets it up again.
Good luck. Don't feel guilt about this. Millions of women have this problem.
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