I feel like this guy I am talking to is losing interest in me. Recently he told me he liked me a lot, a whole lot, so maybe I'm just paranoid. I really enjoy talking to him and I am afraid of screwing up or something. Last night he didn't answer my texts and I sent him a picture but he didn't reply. Then this morning he didn't respond either. And we used to talk a lot but he's been busy and I don't mind that, but something just doesn't feel right in my gut. I'm scared. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I tell myself that he's sweet and wouldn't hurt me like that but I can't convince myself. What do I do? Should I stop talking to him for a while and see if he contacts me first?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Rebekah2311 answered Thursday May 26 2011, 1:42 pm: NO! Never make a guy feel like he has to do something first.
It does seem like he isn't putting a lot of effort into the relationship,and if he doesn't...Honestly why should you?
I would go somewhere,it doesn't matter where,whenever he had time and talk to him about this situation. Ask him if its just a phase,or if he's just totally not feeling the relationship or what.
He seems busy huh? I don't wanna jump conclusions,But are you sure he wouldn't be cheating...Some signs of that are..Not coming around as much,Not having as much interest,basically just not doing anything whatsoever to work on your relationship.
You seem like a great person,if hes not giving you what you deserve,Don't be afraid to totally end things until he changes. Or even forever....
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