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Is he interested?
There is a guy that I have feelings for and I thought he had feeligs for me. I have been trying to date him. However, he is constantly busy and can't seem to make time for me. Should I take it as a sign that he is not interested? I've always been under the impression that a guy will make time to see you if he is really interested. Help!
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The question is that have you told him how you felt and not the "I like you" version? Having feelings for someone and depending on how strong they ar determines whether or not it's worth pursuing. Also believing in yourself and seeing if this person is worth is as you are is all about working to make it happen. Women and men may be different but when it comes to the relationship aspect all they both want is someone who makes them a better person than they already are. Someone who will challenge them. Someone who will support them in what they do and who they are. Someone who won't judge them. The question is with this person you have feelings for and may or may not have told them how you felt. If there is a past between you that affects that situation then deal with it and see. But unless you are truly honest with that person, you will never know whether to stay or move on. Be confident for you and all will work. Happiness will find you either way.
The difference between the " I like You" and "I have feelings for you" is exactly what they say. " I like you" is more of an interest in that person with no investment and no expectation. It is the beginning of something but not too deep into anything. "Having feelings" on the other hand is a huge investment and something worth fighting for. If this is the person you can see yourself with and makes you a better person when you are with them then do something about it. It all depends on the nature of the relationship and how long you've known this person and what is the exact feeling you have for them. Is it "like" or something beyond that. And if they're too busy then what has happened in the past to cause them not to make the time. Or be confident with yourself and tell them how you feel. Stop fearing rejection if it happens because you only learn from it not live by it.
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