So me and my boyfriend were together for almost 2 years and through most of our relationship he was addicted to pills. I didnt know this for like 6 months so I was already in love with him and thought me being there would help him get through things. when he was doing pills hed cry and say I deserve better, I would get frustrated that he was dumpimg me and leave him alone and he would come back 3 days later cryimg and sayimg he missed me and made a mistake. Hes been about a month clean but a week and a half ago I broke up with him because hed say he wanted a relationship but never really acted like it. Like hed just go on these random sprees where hed ignore me. I really love him and I know he hasnt relapsed but I feel sad because he seems perfectly fine from what I hear. Like im barely making it through the day, I dont do anything because we have a lor of mutual friends so I feel embarrassed and pathetic hanging out with them while im so sad and hes fine. Hes been going out a lot and it is just so hard to think the guy that always talked about marriage and how I was the perfect girl from him is never gonna come back and has moved on fine. Any help, advice or words of wisdom would be greatly appreciated. Ive never been so heartbroken.
Additional info, added Wednesday May 25 2011, 3:00 pm: And do you guys think he will come back in a little? Like I feel like maybe hes just keeping himself distracted but whem hes alone he will miss me again? Im so sad and id never end my life but ive thought about how much easier things would be :( dont worry though, id never actually do it. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? TheInspiration answered Thursday May 26 2011, 9:49 pm: Well, I think you should sit him down and talk to him about it all. If he really loves you, he will come back to you... and if not then you might need to move on. I'm sorryy. [ TheInspiration's advice column | Ask TheInspiration A Question ]
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