who do i choose? One guy cheated on me and dumped me? or someone new? I love first guy!
Question Posted Tuesday May 24 2011, 5:29 pm
my ex boyfriend cheated on me twice and took probally 8 breaks and broke up with me for good . i still have feelings for him and he said he hasnt moved on either . should i try to get him back or move on to another guy that asked me outt ? if i should get back together with him then howw ?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? VoiceofReason answered Wednesday May 25 2011, 3:37 am: Because you feel competitive with other women you hate the thought that you came out the loser in all this. But one of the growing processes of life is learning to deal with failure, so you need to make your peace with this relationship being over at least emotionally and move on to better things. I'm sure he would gladly use you as a kind of glorified friend with benefits, which basically reduces you to a walking vaginal comfort station for his penis.
Moreover, your girlfriends are going to talk behind your back at how stupid you are for continuing to pine away for this player. So preserve your dignity and put him in the rear view mirror. [ VoiceofReason's advice column | Ask VoiceofReason A Question ]
hitler_the_goat answered Tuesday May 24 2011, 8:48 pm: we had a saying in the army- no matter how much you spit polish it, a turd is still a turd. this guy is just going to play you like a sock puppet if you take him back. so I suggest you go with the new guy.
-Gunner [ hitler_the_goat's advice column | Ask hitler_the_goat A Question ]
a13d answered Tuesday May 24 2011, 6:53 pm: Hey(: I defintly think you should move on! the first guy sounds like scum. I honestly think he would go out with anyone/ or not really care about the girl he is in a realationship with. Your ex broke up with you way more than enough so defintly don't go back to him! hope I helped(: GoOd LuCk(: [ a13d's advice column | Ask a13d A Question ]
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