Hi do you still rmnbr my problem? I wanted to take you up on that offer to talk about this bus driver I can't seem to get ovr him if that's okay? I miss him a lotttt. I dream of him in ways where he's so close to me but I always wake up before he actually touchea me. I want to be his, I want to care for him, I want to hold his hand, I just want him near. Why do I want him so bad? DaiLy I think of him a lot and replay are convos in my head..
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? gr8fruit answered Tuesday May 24 2011, 11:47 am: Hi,
Yes, I remember your situation. I think you want him so bad because you've never felt that attraction to anyone else and he was a nice guy. BUT as long as he is still with his fiance you should NOT try to be in a relationship with him. You can be friends with him as long as he wants to be friends with you (if he doesn't, do not pursue friendship, try to move on). Knowing how to "control yourself" around him is essential too. He doesn't need a friend that does not know her boundaries.
Since he is in a realtionship, saying you like him makes it hard on both parts (yours and his). You never mentioned if you ever tried contacting him/being friends with him? I believe your dreams will go away once you can get over him though. While you are thinking, keep this in mind: men that are taken shouldn't be chased and being friends is a different story... [ gr8fruit's advice column | Ask gr8fruit A Question ]
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