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How to deal
So me and my ex have been dating for almost 2 years. We havent exactly had the best relationship because he has just began to overcome a drug problem and when he was on pills, he would break up with me a lot saying that he loves me and wants to be with me in the future but knows right now he isnt whats best for me. That would be understandable I guess if he meant it, but whenever he would dump me he'd come back within a week. He's been almost a month clean now but hestopped trying in our relationship.so last friday, I actually ended it. The only problem is I have never felt this sad and alone. I work and am taking summer classes so I dont see too much of my friends and most of them are mutual friends so I feel depressed seeing them. I was really sweet In my breakup text(text cause he wouldnt call or see me) and he just said ok. But then later at night he said um sorry. But that is the last time ive heard from him. I miss him so much and since its been a week, im doubtful that he will come back. I dont even know what id do if he did come back because I want so badly to be with him but I know its prob not whats best and my family hates him. Im just looking for some insight and hoping maybe you guys have a similar situation and can lemme know if u think he will come back.
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To be honest I think it is over. Its always sad and lonely after a break up but you need to find a way to move on. Many times a clean and sober person has a need to leave behind all people who were part of their former life. If he is doing that then he probably will not be back.
Do your best to keep busy. You will find someone to have a healthy relationship with. Just take your time and you will soon see this breakup was probably for the best.
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