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ex fight
so my boyfriend wants to beat up my ex boyfriend becuase he is making fun and trying to contact me and basically is trying to break us up so he has me again because im told he likes me and he is single. should i get mad at him if he fights him or should i be happy because i am in love with this kid and i dont want my ex?
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Alright, heres the thing.. i know your boyfriend would probably LOVE to kick this guys ass, but is it worth it ? really ? he probably is just trying to get a rise out of both of you, and if you give into him, hes getting what he wants.
PLUS: lets say your boyfriend did fight him, HED be the one getting in trouble, not your ex. so once again, your ex would win.
i know. fighting is soooo tempting. but it does have consequences and you have to be level headed and sometimes.. being mature and ignoring what is going on is the better route to take.
and to answer your other question, well, it would really depend on your feelings towards everything. if your boyfriend got in a fight with your ex and then got suspended would you seriously be happy ? yeah, hes fighting for you, but having a boyfriend who stooped to your ex's level.. would that make you happy ? but also, it depends on what youre telling him. if youre telling your boyfriend to beat your ex up.. then you already know your answer, youd be happy 'cause then you got what you wanted, however, your boyfriend would get in trouble.
and if youre in love with him, think about his life and how getting into a fight with your ex would affect him. im sure if you love him, you wouldnt want him to jeopardize anything. being happy that your boyfriend will possibly get in a fight with your ex doesnt show that youre happy and no longer want your ex.. but ignoring it and focusing on YOUR current relationship will make both of you happy, im sure :]
good luck ! hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! xxo.
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