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How do I get my man aroused and what if he has a small penis?
Ok, so my partner and I attemped to have intercourse for the first time (us both being virgins) but everytime I would try getting him turned on and attempting ro put a condom on, he would go soft again and with his member being small how would we go about having sex, as its frustrating for both of us, I love no matter what size he is I was just wondering how would him and i go about doing these things, PLEASE HELP
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Ah, the condom problem. That is actually far more widespread than you think. Everyone talks about safe sex, but there are many guys out there that have a huge aversion to condoms. I hate the bloody things personally despite how necessary they are.
The way I see it you guys have one or two possible problems. It could be the condom issue, or it could just be first time nerves. The latter is extremely common and could manifest itself as either the inability to stay hard or as premature ejaculation (two wonderful extremes lol).
You have a few options. You could try a device that keeps the blood in once he gets hard. They sell special rings which you can get online or in sex shops. This is hear-say for me, so I have no idea how well they work etc.
You can also talk to a doctor and get something like viagra if its an ongoing problem.
What I would suggest you try first is to simply try again, but to make it light hearted and without nerves and expectations (as hard as that sounds). In many, many cases all it will take is a bit of patience.
In regards to his size, some positions are better than others. I found this article online with a simple google search:
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Well, good luck.
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If he won't screw you because he has a tiny penis then all you do is tell him either you love his little member all tiny & stuff or you exxaagerate his size & tell him you think it's huge. If you want to turn him on to sex and off on the 'I have a small weener' gag then I suggest oral, but some people find that gross so you can totally cancel out the oral pleasure.
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