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My ex-relationship.
I knew this guy(we'll call him Jake) for over a year. We had a off and on relationship. We fought alot but always got over it. He dated other girls and I dated other guys. When we weren't together he didn't push a relationship and I didn't either. He was one of my best friends.
I knew he really loved me, I just didn't do anything about it. So anyways, last August one of of my really good friends got us together and I fell haard for Jake.
We broke up about a month later, him claiming I had changed. We've barely talked and then Jake and one of my other friends got into a fight.
We haven't talked since then and its been about 6 months. I don't miss him as a boyfriend. I just miss my bestfriend so much.
Can anyone tell me what I should do? Please?
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You could call him and explain how you feel. He will either accept or reject your offer to resume the relationship. You don't say how old you are. People DO change as they mature. It's a normal part of life, including personality change. If you don't change, then you've got a problem. He sounds like he wants your personality to remain status quo, but things can never remain status quo in life and those who cannot adjust are left behind. You can only reach out and see if he accepts it. If not, you need to move on in life knowing you gave him a chance to remain good friends. Some people want to remain 16 forever. Not pretty when your 50.
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