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Me and my boy friend are looking to adopt a baby.


Question Posted Monday April 25 2011, 5:20 pm

My boy friend and i are getting married and we want to adopt a baby.Ever since we talked about it he stared going crazy and storming out of the house.What should I do?

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bubblegumdrop answered Tuesday April 26 2011, 8:53 pm:
several things could be happening here (all of which can be helped by talking to him).

There's a possibility he's not ready for a child. He could be scared because it's a lot of responsibility. He could be anxious because the days of his" freedom" are counting down. He could be angry because he can't/won't express his thought. He could be cautious because he doesn't know how he's going to afford everything he wants at once.

Ask him. Communicate with him. Slow down the pace of this relationship and regroup with him. Be open and understanding with him. Remember that his feelings are valid, regardless of what they are.

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