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Bleeding from sex?
Hi I'm a 16 year old girl, and recently an issue came up while fooling around with my boyfriend that I'm a little concerned about.
Well, we were making out on my bed, one thing led to another, blah blah blah. He ended up fingering me. He might have been a little rough at one point, but it was not unpleasant. I didn't feel any pain except when he tried to put another finger in.
The problem was, when he was done, he noticed blood on his hand and then on my sheets and all over my thighs. I felt wetter than usual, but this was the first time I've had any sort of outside attention down there in a long time. So I didn't think anything of it until seeing the blood.
At first I thought I had gotten my period. I was completely embarrassed, but that was that. I figured it'd be gone in a week, and we could continue on happily. I noticed the blood was brighter than usual, but I dismissed it.
Then about an hour later, after showering and taking care of business, I noticed that the pad I had on was almost completely clean except for a few tiny smears of blood. I changed it anyway for the night and went to bed. This morning, I woke up and checked... nothing but a few tiny smears of blood. Normally when my period comes, it makes itself known, and I have to change constantly. So if the bleeding wasn't my period, what could it have been? Or could it still be my period, just gone all wonky?
I had a similar incident three years ago with my first boyfriend the second time we had vaginal sex, only it was right after my period ended. I bled when he fingered me, and it was the same bright red. There was more blood before, but it went away about an hour after, same as this time.
I'm really confused as to what the problem could be because I can pleasure myself without any problem and have been doing so ever since I broke up with my first boyfriend.
I've toyed with the idea that it could be an STD, but I find that very unlikely because this was my first sexual experience with my current boyfriend and my only other partner was a virgin.
Maybe I could be stressed out? Please help!
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From what you've said here I don't think it is an STI or an STD what I think it is, is you "popping your cherry" as its called. When your boyfriend fingered you he most probably broke your hymen which explains the bright red blood. And also explains the reason why you didnt bleed for that long. What could have happened is that the first time it bled, it was only torn partially, and now maybe it was fully broken. Your hymen is a piece of tissue, and this is perfectly normal. Hope this helps, inbox me if you need more help xx
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