Thank you for answering my question about moving on after a break-up. I completely agree with you about the importance of finding someone who you will be happy to marry and have children with in the future. That's why I broke it off with him; I couldn't picture myself being happy with him in the future, no matter how happy we had been for the past 2 years. I plan to just avoid contact with him for a while, at least until I can truthfully say that I've moved on. Even though he thinks keeping in contact will help him move on, I really think no contact is best for both of us.
You don't need to respond to this; I just wanted to say thank you for your advice. It sounds like you're part of a very tight-knit and happy family. I hope I can find a similar kind of happiness in the future. If I have any more questions concerning this, I'll definitely ask you!
I mentioned your situation to a friend of mine, who is also in a really good marriage. She completely agreed that having a motivated husband is a wonderful thing. It is something that is worth being a deciding factor over.
Enjoy your break away! I love volunteering and always like to recommend that as a way to spend your time. So if you need preoccupying for a bit, why not try that :-) [ bewise's advice column | Ask bewise A Question ]
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