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whats the best way to give a handjob?
Hey(:
So Im Sixteen.
And Ive Never Given A Handjob Before.
Me And My Boyfriend Have Been Dating For A Year And We Want To Have Sex. So, Due To That Decision, We Have Been Getting To Know Each Others Bodies A Little Better. The Other Night, He Was In Town And We Hung Out At My Friends Place.
We Were Fooling Around In Her Room.
Now, Me And My Boyfriend Are Like BEST FRIENDS. So Nothing Is Ever Awkward Between Us. And We Can Laugh About Everything Together(:
So He Was Just Messing Around And Somehow His Boxers Came Off? Haha
And Then We Were Still Fooling Around And I Like, Touched It A Lot, But It Wasnt A HandJob.
Since Ive Never Given One Before, Im Not Sure How I Should Do It. Should I Grasp It Tightly And Go Slow, Or Lightly And Go Fast. And How Tight Is Too Tight? Thanks(:
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HAND JOB: Most definately use a libricant! What works with one guy may not be good for another, and often the best way to find out is by asking! Encourage him to show you how he pleasures himself, then take the lead and be creative. As a basic starting point, however, grip his penis gently with your hand/s and slowly stroke it up and down. Be sensitive to the way he responds, and you'll soon find the confidence to try out different techniques. Ultimately, the only limit is your imagination, so here are a few ideas to get you thinking;
The Ring of Pleasure
Instead of using your hand around his shaft, form a donut ring with your thumb and forefinger and get a rhythm going just under the glands at the top of his penis.
The Comb Over
On every other 'upswing' or so, take your thumb and rub it over the top of his penis head before bringing your hand down again.
The Pastry Worm
Sandwich his penis between the flat of both hands, then roll one hand forward and the other back. Repeat the motion back and forth as if you were playing with pastry, and not trying to light a fire with sticks. Aim to extend your attention to the head of his penis as well as his testicles - two very sensitive areas of the male genitalia. Rubbing your thumb around the rim of his bell end and/or gently cupping his balls while you work is guaranteed to make his toes curl with pleasure.
Hope this helps!!xx
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