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My Crush Moved Away!!!!!
Okay so my crush..i have loved him for a very long time and we had so many memories..we didnt live right next to eachother but one of my best guy friends mom lives near him and his dad lives near me and he visits his mom on the weekends..so he gets to see my crush..i met my crush through my best guy friend and ever since then me and my crush always talked to eachother and i could tell he liked me a little bit..and he went to my school..but sadly he moved back to valdailia with his mom because of personal reasons..now he lives two hours away.. i would call him but i dont have his number..i have to ask my best guy friend for it..but i have been crying for the longest time..but i feel so weird crying about it even though he lives two hours away. when im alone i get depressed and hate myself for not being there for him or telling him how i felt..but i pray that he moves back to his dads....i felt like seeing him in the cafeteria friday before spring break was the last time i would ever see him again..! what do i do.. i am 13 and a female.
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The first thing I would try to do is find a way to contact your crush. Even if you have to wipe your eyes, take a deep breath and call your best guy friend to ask for his number; do it. It is alright to cry about anything in the world that is bothering you; crying is healing. Right now you are just feeling sad, for he isn't as close and you don't have his number to tell him you miss him. So, gather up your strength and call your best guy friend. Once you have your crushes number, let him know how you are feeling (that you miss him and you hope to see him soon).
Once you are able to express what you are feeling to your crush, you will be happier and already start to feel better, trust me. I know how you feel not being able to be there for him, but if you get his number or e-mail you can be there for him. Find out if you can call him a few times a week or if he will call you whenever he has free time. If he cannot call you as much as you would like, see if he could send you e-mail messages which you can reply to. You could also write letters on the side pretending to be penpals :) You never know, maybe his personal reasons for moving will change and he will come back. For now, focus on getting his number so you can (at least) communicate.
Also, think about how he would feel knowing you are depressed from missing him; I'm sure he would want you to smile :) and don't worry, you will see him again. Just hearing his voice will make you feel a hundred times better *warm fuzzy feeling*. Wipe your eyes, pray, put on a smile, dial your best guy friends number, then dial your crushes number... everything will be alright <3
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