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First time giving oral sex
I am a male who is going to give oral sex to another guy. We have a date next week. He is much older then me, he 46, me 20 so he is much more experienced at this then I am. This will be my first time doing this, I have never been with a guy and want to please him as best as I can. What should I know to do this right? Also he wants me to do him without a condom and wants me to swallow and wants to video this so I can watch myself afterwards.
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This answer has nothing to do with homosexuality, it has to do with you safety and the rest of your life, or your early death.
Condoms don't protect against everything even when they work perfectly. HPV (genital warts, throat cancer permanent loss of vocal cords when the warts are removed...) and both strains of herpes are things a condom isn't going to help you with.
Also, in case you were unaware, you CAN get HIV/AIDS from oral sex.
Secondly, that video taping thing is a really bad idea. Once he has that tape, you will have two choices: Do whatever he wants, because you WILL be blackmailed with that tape. DOn't think for one minute that when you decide to end the relationship, he won't use it against you.
Your other choice will be to let him out you to your family and friends. Once he has that tape, he will own you until you decide that letting him send that tape to your family is better than doing what he wants you to do.
Ok, please understand: You can say: "I don't want to take video." and he can promise you that he will not. BUT, you already told us that he gets off on having that video of his encounters (you aren't the first in his collection most likely) and so he will record you without your knowledge or consent.
I know you are going to have doubts about what I am telling you, but I have years of life experience on you, and while I have never been in this position, exactly, I have seen this exact scam run on hundreds of people. This website is littered with stories of young people doing what you are talking about, and having to live with the consequences.
If you listen to only one thing, let it be this:
PLEASE, don't do this. It WILL be the largest mistake of your life so far.
In a little while you will be looking back on this, once the heat of the moment is gone, and you will thank me... if you will only listen.
Please don't throw your future away.
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