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Almost to the breaking point :/


Question Posted Friday April 1 2011, 5:24 pm

Alright, So I'm 15 and my boy friend he's 17.. we've been dating for a year and 4 months now.

From the beginning I knew he was the right one, I felt something different with him..I was dating someone when I fell for him though, I felt lonely and my boyfriend who I was with compeletly stopped talking to me, and I was really depressed over it..and I met him..and my god it was such an amazing feeling..It started with a simple crush and it grew into something amazing..

Pretty much like all relationships, rumors start people were saying he was cheating on me.. which he denied and he said with his past relationships..since people disliked him so they made things up.. There was only ONE time when he actually screwed up, and that was when he wrote a note to a girl he use to like before me..who was my friend.. he wrote to her saying some of his feelings came back, and he wanted them to be cleared up.. she didn't want to be with him, and he realized after almost losing me..that he made a mistake, and didn't want to be with her..and only me.

I'm getting tired of rumors..I really am..a new one just started about him cheating on me with someone in the 8th grade..he only knows to ppl in the 8th grade and he does not like them..

His cousin has this obsession with this one girl, and he was using my bf's fb to chat with her, when I saw that I FREAKED..and called him..he told me it was his cousin..and I told this girl Kait..and now I believe she's starting stuff because she use to like my bf..but she has a "boy friend".

I love my boy friend..but I have horrible trust issues.. I don't know what to do?
Please tell me your thoughts, don't be harsh please :/


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bakahaido answered Sunday April 3 2011, 2:18 am:
cant stop rumors from going on, nosy people unfortunately have mouths. being in a relationship, sometimes you just have to tune out the rumors and see things as it is.
besides the letter thing, has he ever gone alone with girls? does he flirts around with girls alot? judge it from what you see and know, not from something you've heard. not even from your bf.
it can be super frustrating when ther's no trust or security in a relationship, so give him a little break.
h'ever you guys are still young and green, whatever happens take it as a learning experience :)

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