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I am confused about sex
how do you give a good hand job and blow job and at what angle do you get on top and ride is it up and down or front to bck?
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The previous person gave a great answer, however, it's hard to actually picture what you are doing. I would definitely recommend watching a few videos to get pointers. Not saying that to be nasty or anything, but it'll help you see how to do it.
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BLOW JOB: If you're happy to go down, don't lose sight of what's going on upstairs in his head. Frankly, you're tugging at his brains down there, so you need to pick up on every moan or groan he gives. The better you understand each other, however, the more comfortable you'll feel. Many people gag at the idea of going down on a dick. Even if it's clean as a whistle, there's always the fear he'll forget himself, leaving you to deal with an out of control organ with no apparent off-switch. TheSite suggests you grip his penis head as you approach it, and hold it there in a ring formed by your thumb and forefinger. Once he's in, feel free to place your hands around the penis shaft. This gives you control, allowing you to determine how much you want to take into your mouth. What goes on when you're down there is entirely up to you. Some women use their mouth as if it were a hoover. Others employ their tongue to great effect. Many do a combination of both. Just be aware that there is no industry standard. Do whatever feels comfortable, and gives you both the greatest satisfaction. Kissing. Nibbling. Even humming a note with his head in your mouth. Whatever you do, he won't complain! Gently cupping his testicles will widen the area of sexual pleasure for him, and can even intensify his orgasm.
HAND JOB: Most definately use a libricant! What works with one guy may not be good for another, and often the best way to find out is by asking! Encourage him to show you how he pleasures himself, then take the lead and be creative. As a basic starting point, however, grip his penis gently with your hand/s and slowly stroke it up and down. Be sensitive to the way he responds, and you'll soon find the confidence to try out different techniques. Ultimately, the only limit is your imagination, so here are a few ideas to get you thinking;
The Ring of Pleasure
Instead of using your hand around his shaft, form a donut ring with your thumb and forefinger and get a rhythm going just under the glans at the top of his penis.
The Comb Over
On every other 'upswing' or so, take your thumb and rub it over the top of his penis head before bringing your hand down again.
The Pastry Worm
Sandwich his penis between the flat of both hands, then roll one hand forward and the other back. Repeat the motion back and forth as if you were playing with pastry, and not trying to light a fire with sticks. Aim to extend your attention to the head of his penis as well as his testicles - two very sensitive areas of the male genitalia. Rubbing your thumb around the rim of his bell end and/or gently cupping his balls while you work is guaranteed to make his toes curl with pleasure.
When your riding your man, theres not really any specific angle to put it in you just straddle him and place his penis in your vagina, and do what ever feels good to you so if you wanna go back and forth go ahead, you can ride it up and down, it all depends on what feels good for you, the whole girl on top thing is for you to be in control and get the pleasure you want, if he wants even more pleasure then hell place you where he wants. you can even do circular motions to help with clitoral stimulation.
Hope this helps!!xx
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