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Broken hearted
age: 33
gender: female
i have been seeing this guy since January of 2011. Two days ago he told me to back off. He said that I follow him around like a lost puppy. I have benn trying to talk to him through text messages. He told me that if I do not stop texting him he would go talk to the landlord about it.
I love this guy a lot. I have done everything for him for the last couple of months. I walked away from my marriage for him. I do not allow no males into my apartment. I even took an HIV test for him.
I wish I could tell him that I am sorry for what had happen in the past. I wish I could be with him once again. He made me happy when I am with him. Now, I feel miserable without him
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If you have been seeing this guy for a few months already, I would think you'd both know how eachother acts. Texting him alot without any response does come off as a bit attached on your part though. I think you should of sent him only one or two messages saying "I miss talking to you, text me when you aren't busy" and then waited for him to respond before you sent another.
Since he doesn't like that you texted him alot, try to talk to him in person or get someone else to deliver a message for you. Don't text him saying you want to talk, cause that's what he said not to do. You may also leave him a note saying "I'm sorry about my texting. I miss talking to you, please get back to me" and then leave it at that until he replies. If he cares as much as you do, he should reply within a day or so of receiving your message/having a conversation with you. If he doesn't, do not send another immediately; he may just be busy. If he doesn't respond after a long period of time, I would move on. There is a guy for you that will take the time to help fix mistakes that are made. I am kind of suprised you would walk away from marriage for someone different, but it happens.
I have no idea what else came between you two in the past, but whatever it is, all you can do is let him know you are sorry and then give him time to forgive you. I know what it is like to miss someone you care about. He will only forgive you/get back with you if you give him some space and let him figure out himself that you are sorry. Once he figures that out, he will see that you care about him and contact you. Whatever happens, do not rush into things. Take it slow to build that friendship again, feel free to compliment him and let him know you make him happy, but without pushing his boundaries. Please don't let him know you are miserable without him, guys are more likely to get back with someone positive that can carry confidence. If you need: feel free to inbox me about anything in the future <3
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