so i have been going out with this guy for 8 months and my parents are abit uptight so i see a him a few times on weekends and last night when i spoke to him he told me something really shocking. he has been doing drugs. he told me that it's really getting to him and he really wants to stop but thats really hard to do because that's all that his friends do for fun. he doesn't wanna seek professional help because he believes that he's not that deep in could you guys please help me out i really want to help him and that's what he wants too but we want to rectify this ourselves. he's in college and he's really smart i don't wanna see him ruin his life. what do i say to him? i really appreciate your help thank you
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? sunshine1232 answered Friday March 4 2011, 1:35 pm: I think you should tell him you don't want to
see him ruin his life your concerned for him and his well being and your willing to help him so he doesn't have to go through it alone say if he doesn't stop it will get to the point where he'll be deep in and it won't be easy to stop tell him you think it would be a good idea if he stopped hanging out with the friend's who do the drugs and find new one's tell him you don't want to see him struggle in college and do badly because of the drugs him being in college is a good experience and opportunity for him make him realize that if the situation doesn't get taken care of soon it will become more serious he needs to get away from the friend's completely their the reason he's doing drugs he needs to find new one's if he continues to be with them he'll continue but on the other hand if he's taken away from the situation he'll start to stray away from the drugs and start doing other things he won't be fully focused on the drugs like he is now tell him there's better things he can do and him doing drugs doesn't have to be one of them he's smarter
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