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trying to set boundaries
I have recently separated from my partner of 6 years, he wouldn't communicate about anything and started drinking again after nearly 12 months of not drinking we have a 4 year old daughter & after many attempts from me to make our relationship work I asked him to leave now he is living 5 minutes away and calls nearly everyday or calls up whenever he is near and his excuse is to see his daughter....we have been getting on ok, until the other day when he informed me that he had been asked out and he was thinking about going out to dinner with this woman, this has hit a raw nerve with me feeling somewhat betrayed as its only been a few weeks since he left and feel he is just being cruel. I think i need to set some boundaries on contact as I'm really finding it hard to try and move on with this constant contact and information about this other person.
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set up a visting time or even let him take her with him on certain days for a certain number of hours. did you tell him you dont like to hear about this other women. tell him how you feel!
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