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Furious with a friend - at the end of my tether, and do not know what to do
A lot of things have been building up to my being really angry at this one friend, only I don't feel that I can do anything about it: At school there are about 5 of us friends and we're all really close, so if I decide to de-friend this one person I'm afraid its going to create a rift between the five of us. I really don't want to come across childish either but I just feel so infuriated by her.
She's 18, and I am also, and over the past 5 months things just keep happening to make me angry with her, like when we were painting at her house she put paint on my trousers and when I sat down I accidently sat on her cardigan and got paint on it. I apologised and said I would help her pay towards a new one, as it was just a polite thing to say and I was sure the paint would come out. The next day she texts me asking for £20 to buy a new one, that putting it in the wash has ruined it and that I owe her a new one. I was shocked, if I had put paint on my friends bum and she had then sat on my cardigan I would blame myself, and know that it was an accident anyway, I would not demand the money for it. I suggested she let me try and get the paint out but she said her mum had already tried and in doing so had made holes in the cardi, so I had to give her money.
Another thing is that I went on holiday with her (before all this happened) and made a ton of video's to make sure we had memories when we got home. Its been 6 months and I have been asking, but I have still seen hide nor hair of these videos. Memories are very important to me, and being deprived of them because of her laziness just infuriates me.
I really do not know what to do, I am fast becoming exhausted and find myself wanting to moan about her to everyone and I really hate it.
She is very capricious, selfish, and childish, just general personality wise.
Any advice about how to handle the situation would really be appreciated.
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