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whats wrong with me
im with the most perfect guy. ive finally found someone who loves me for who i am.someone i can tell anything to but its like i have some sort of depression.soemtimes ill be soo bubbly with who.the person who i am but on soem days ill be excited to see him but when i do im emotionless.ill feel nothing for him.ill be numb.i want that to go away but i dont know how to be happy.when im like that ill say things to him that hurt him.i wont care about his feelings but when i leave him ill miss him.grrr how do i be who i am,the nice person that i know myself to be instead of that horrible mean person when im with him??
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I get like that all the time too when I'm with my guy. Maybe you and him aren't that close or you either aren't spending enough time with him. What you need to do is express what you feel to him when you are feeling that way. He could help you out and maybe understand how you are feeling. Who knows maybe this guy is feeling the exact same way. He should care about you, if he asks what's wrong tell him. Don't be depressed. I think what you really need to do is just be with him. Maybe you'll feel yourself again and not have all these mixed emotions. Then once you had a great time with him be with your friends. It's good to have a balance so you can be happy with him and have a life as well.
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I think it's great that you think this guy is perfect for you. If you know that he loves you for who you are, you don't need to worry about anything when you're around him. You need to breath and relax and just be yourself. If you're nervous that can also be a good thing because he takes you out of your comfort zone. But you need to learn how to break that barrier. Tell him things you wouldn't normally tell him and be completely honest. If you can't truly express yourself around him, he may not be the best guy for you.
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