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He's leaving my school:(


Question Posted Thursday February 3 2011, 7:53 pm

Anyways so I'm 15 f and the guy who is leaving my school for a public school and he's 16 a sophomore m anyways aha I really like him like I can't stop thinking about him and I'm nothappy without him and this might sound creepy but I'm serious. So during the summer we had a thing and in school itjust was awkward but I still liked him and I don't know why or how we stoped talking and how it got awkward I have no idea he had a class with me and now he has a different class with me and I still cant get over him. And I've tried a lot! So I asked him to the sweethearts dance coming up last Friday and he didn't respond until today! He gave me a note and it said all these sweet things but he said he can't go he's transferring to a school( it's not to far away) but when iread it I got so excited but then my eyes started to water... I'm losing him and he's like the only person who makes me happy at this moment. Im going to cry and cry if I don't see him he makes my day brighter and I don't know what I'm going to do he doesn't want me to tell anyone he's tranferring like next week! But he's like not the most attractive guy but some how he's a stud! And I'm afraid I'm going to lose him. This sounds so creepy but i don't know I'm lost without him please I just wrote a note saying all this stuff I'm going to give it to him tomorrow:( please I don't know what to do I will not be happy for a long time unless we still talk I get so jealous even when were just friends!!! Please help sorry this is so long!:( I'm just pathetic

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NobodysPerfect08 answered Friday February 4 2011, 9:38 am:
Ok, first of all, did you just call yourself pathetic? Really? Because you're losing a guy that you like, and because you're sad, you think you're pathetic???!!! If that were true, every girl in the world would be pathetic! So, stop right there! God, this is what I hate so much. I see so many girls posting questions and they say: "Ahhh, I know I'm so pathetic" and, "I can't live without him", or "I am nothing, I know that I'm a loser" What is wrong with women, has it gotten this far?! You know it really hurts to see women your age, any age put themselves down like that. It's horrible enough when other people call you pathetic, but you calling yourself pathetic? My God!!! Anyways, look, I know exactly how you feel. My boyfriend is leaving for Holland in the summer, yes HOLLAND! So I will basically never see him again, but for you, it's not even close to being completely over! You said he's schools near by, and you know there's this thing called 'meeting outside of school', you know 'going on a date'! You can still meet on weekends, or after school..whatever! You're only half-ly losing him, think of it that way! For me, I'M going to lose my boyfriend, and I have the right to not be happy for a long time, you don't! It's as simple as that..

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