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would you believe a man if he cheeted on you and tried to come back apologizing? will you give him another chance?
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I think it would entirely depend on the circumstances and the man. So in order to give a properly detailed answer i'd need to know the situation.
Generally speaking if a man has cheated on you - has easily given into temptation - then i wouldnt trust him. Even if you took him back there would still be that wondering in the back of your mind as to whether or not he's being faithful, whether you can trust him or not.
Ultimately you'd be focusing so much on his past indisgressions that the relationship suffers and you end up back where you were: doubting the future of your relationship.
There are instances where one could forgive, such as being married to someone in the military, a traumatic event in the marriage such as the loss of a child etc. I think these are instances where if it happens once under extreme circumstances and you whole heartedly know the man, his personality and that it was genuinely a single mistake then theres a chance of working things out.
Otherwise, you're best starting fresh with someone you can trust and you know wont hurt you. People dont just cheat on people they love for no reason. They either dont care enough about the person or the are not ready to make a monogamous commitment.
Even if they were drunk it's hardly an excuse. There is a difference between a moral and an ethical man and the ethical man wouldnt cheat no matter how intoxicated he were. Unless he's suffered some sort of serious trauma or there has been something serious happen in the relationship, it seems you may be best without him.
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