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I shouldn't like him but i do! I just wanna live a life with out him in it.


Question Posted Friday January 21 2011, 7:00 pm

So there was this guy that I have liked for almost 4 years now he bad news he had been with my bestfriends and people i hate I shouldn't like him but i do and i recently just got a new boyfriend to possibly get over him but i can't because he was my first for everything as in EVERYTHING! But i really like my other boyfriend but i can't do anything with him like i dont allow my self too and its not that im self consious with my body its just that I can't seem to be able to get over him and it bothers me. honestly i need help and advice quick so this doesn't keep happening to me I just wanna live a life with out him in it.

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kacibinkley answered Saturday January 22 2011, 3:08 am:
Well it isn't fair that your new boyfriend is getting the bad end of the stick. Everyone says that in order to get over someone you have to find someone else; THATS A LIE. The "rebound" doesn't deserve to go through the bagges you are bringing towards him. I understand you really like your new boyfriend, but you said so yourself that you can't give him 100% because your still hung on your past crush. You need to be single, and be happy with yourself first. You have to believe and realize that what you and your past crush had is completely over with. Maybe you need closure? You need to think about the things this guy has put you through and realize that you don't deserve that. YOu deserve to be treated like a queen, and not a pheasant. Its not fair to your new boyfriend either. Before you can be happy with him, you need to be a 100% over your ex crush. There is nothing I can do to help you get over him, its all on you. You have to stop being blind, and see what your friends see. You need to fully understand the situation and how come it will never work between the two of you.

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