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How could he tell i was a virgin??
So I gave my bf a bj and right in tge middle of it he asked if i was a virgin... I told him yes ( because I am ) and he told me that h could tell I was, first of all WHAT!!!!!! how can you tell if a girl is a virgin by just them giving you a bj???? At the end he told me tht it felt really good ( but he sounded sarcastic ) so, could he tell I was a virgin because it was my first time doing a bj and im bad at it?? p.s. I think I did good because I didn't let my teeth touch it but then again, I don't think i wad that good because he didnt cu* or moan, all he did was hold onto my head and every now and then push it down further, so does anyone have advice?
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If your boyfriend is shallow enough to hold the fact that you are a virgin against you, Then I would rethink it over to whether you really want to be with him. Who cares if you are a virgin, Sure the younger generation now a days is all about who gets some first and who doesn't but I got to tell you it really shouldn't matter because reality is, It's not a game or a race.
For starters, Your boyfriend is an ass. You give him what he wants and he has the balls to criticize you in the process? You deserve better
Now for the question: There IS no way he can tell if you are a virgin or not, Likewise he assumed so because of the way you were doing business or maybe because you acted nervous but I got news for you acting nervous for your first time is PERFECTLY NORMAL. So lets nail a few questions...
1, Do you trust your boyfriend? Really think about that one for a minute...
2, Someone who loves someone does not put them down and make them feel insecure. Your boyfriend did both.
Hold off for awhile, Talk to your boyfriend and let him know how you feel and if he continues to do put you down then it's time to kick him to the curb because there are men out there who won't make you feel like a worthless piece of crap.
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I'm still a vergin and.my bf don't knw and he says I'm great and it was my first bj too something else had to throw him off to that conclusion. Hope I helped
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