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heartbreak part twoo.
Everyone tells me to talk to Riley; But its like I have so much to say, I wouldn't know where to begin. i don't know if I should do it in person, or over the phone. I dont know what I should even say to him. I know he wouldn't ignore me. He would talk to me, but its just the fact that I feel like its going to make it worse. I feel as if there is so much left inside of me that I didn't let out to him. Like I need my closure. I still feel like we aren't even broken up. Like we are on break, and Im waiting for him to call me and tell me he's done with the break,and he wants me back. Even though thats not even possible. My heart isn't letting me believe we are done, and I don't know how to tell it we are.
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look at it this way, at least you know he'll talk to you. my ex wouldn't, so i never got closure, and i had to find it by myself.
but you're lucky. and i think this is something that needs to be said in person because then your emotins can come out, sometimes you can't really tell whats going on over the phone.. and in person you can see his facial expressions and he can see yours; trust me, its just better that way. maybe ask him if he'll meet you at a park, and then sit in a car or some place where people wont be watching you.. and just talk.
now, the talking part, well.. you start at the beginning. you just start with how you feel. just ask him questions that you have.. like if you dont understand why this happened, ask him why he lost feeling for you.. dont yell, dont blame anyone or yourself.. just talk, civily. if you're calm, he'll be more open to willingly talk.
you need to let out whatever is inside of you and if you start to cry when you talk to him, then so-be-it. he did this to you. he needs to see what he has done and he needs to fix it and he NEEDS to give you closure, because you deserve it. you could always start of the conversation with him with just a simple, "i want to talk to you about us breaking up, because i dont feel like we are.. i need some kind of reason as to why you dont want to be with me anymore; i really need the closure so i can move on."
... its a simple as that, and then just let him talk. i know, it seems so scary and intimidating, and in the back of your mind you probably think that this could be the day you both get back together, but dont think that. you dont want to hurt yourself more than youre already hurting, so go in with an open mind and just hear him out, because he'll hear you out.
good luck ! im here if you ever need someone to talk to or some advice :] dont be afraid ! you got this. xxo.
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