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Erection Problem
My boyfriend and i started having sex a couple of weeks ago and he doesnt last that long his penis goes soft after 3 or 4 minutes and i cant get him hard again sometimes he has trouble getting an erection hes a bit embarrassed about it what can we do to get him to last longer?
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Is it his first time having sex? A lot of guys have a lot of trouble trying to keep it up for a long time when they've just started having sex. Give him a little while longer to get used to the feelings and sensations.
I'm not sure how much foreplay is going on but maybe you're getting him too excited. Maybe try cutting out the foreplay part or only doing it for a few minutes before sex.
He could also try to visualize non-sexual things and see if that helps.
That's everything I can think of. Try googling for some more ideas and if the problem continues without getting any better for a few months he may want to see a doctor to see what he can do about it.
Early ejaculation is normal with a lot of guys and sometimes they're just a bit nervous and need a little while to perform properly.
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