Remember, everyone is different and that isn't necessarily a bad thing. Some people like this sort of play while others are uncomfortable participating in it.
There are loads of bellybutton fetish videos on YouTube and other free, safe websites that you may indulge in your fetish in and meet like-minded people who also enjoy such things. I am sure you could watch other women pushing objects into their belly buttons very easily with a few Google searches.
When you're seeking a long-term partner that is interested in your particular fetish then you need to weigh consequences on how you want to go about seeking. If you seek a person solely because they enjoy the same fetish(es) as you then your relationship may be purely sexual and burn out quickly. If you find a nice, attractive woman, get to know her well, and then divulge your secret love for bellybuttons then she may be more open to it than if you had just walked up to her and ask.
What I'm saying is, if you are currently single and seeking then maybe it's best to enjoy the fetish alone for awhile through fantasies, videos, and safe images. Then, once a relationships grows and you two are more comfortable you can suggest these sorts of activities.
The answer to your question is really not black or white. It's yes, no, maybe, sometimes, etc.
Some women love it.
Some women think it's alright or so-so.
Some women dislike it but will tolerate it.
Some women hate it.
Some women are open to it but aren't sure either way if they like or dislike it.
And some women would be open to trying it but have no current knowledge of such things so they can't even give an opinion yet.
It's really like any other fetish. It's not for everyone, but some people really enjoy it. Focus on making sturdier relationships before dropping "the bomb" and asking for such things--unless you only want a sexual partner who will stimulate you. Like any other fetish, some people will look at you like you're a hideous freak when they find out and others will form a bright smile and say, "That sounds fun!" [ Peeps's advice column | Ask Peeps A Question ]
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