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Im a straight girl in love with another straight girl...
Ok short and sweet i will make this. I'm 18 now been in love with this girl I know since the fifth grade (since i was 10 no lie!). Problem is im not gay! but im so in love with her( i would die for her). No one knows or has the slightest idea of my feelings. We have graduated and i now live 1000 miles away from her (we never tlked much through the school years) and i will be seeing her this summer(only due to my visit back). Should i tell her how i feel...or should i just leave it alone and let her go. Im starting to feel like i have an obsession even though im positive im just in love. Just because ive been secretly in love with her for 8 years now. how should i tell her how i feel???(and believe me when i say im in love)
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First of all, reexamine your sexual orientation. Plenty of heterosexual (straight) females have "girl crushes," but I've never heard of a straight girl being deeply in love with another female. I'm not saying that in a negative way, I'm just expressing that it might be a good idea to explore that a bit.
Anyway, I would play it by ear. You can wait until you see her and find out that your strong emotions were fueled by the anticipation of talking to/seeing her (since you said that you never really talked much anyway). If you still think that you're in love, you can tell her for your own sake; getting something like that off your chest really helps you get over it.
Basically, if you still feel strongly about her, tell her for your own sake. Don't expect anything to come of it since you both live so far away most of the time; however, confessing may make it easier for you to get over since it'll give you some type of closure.
-Manders
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