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strangest most realistic dream. what does it mean?
18/ female
Last night i had possibly the most strange dream i've had in a very very long time. My dream felt so unbelievable realistic that when i woke up i was in a trance like state for half an hour just trying to figure out if it was a dream, and how weird and realistic the feelings were.
My dream involved my new house we just moved into, I was with my mother, sister and father in the lounge room when three guys turned up. They just so happen to be the band members from my favourite band that i met recently. Immediately the lead singer came over and greeted me, i could remember exactly what he said when i woke up, but unfortunately it slipped my mind recently. I then remember seeing my mother and the band member i have the biggest crush on getting along fantastically. In my waking life, she often refers to him as her 'son in law' so i guess thats where i got that part from.
What happened next was the most interesting part. We all headed off to bed, Yet my mother was still entertaining the band member i liked and the lead singer. So i showed the third band member to his room. Which was next to my sisters room, and the lounge room. I went into my own room and lay in my bed, staring at the ceiling. I then got up and snuck into the room where the third band member was lying down. There was two beds in the room. I remember him asking me if i wanted to join him, i replied with 'i cant when my sisters in the next room and my mother and the rest of the band in the lounge', next thing i knew i lay down on the spare bed, staring at the ceiling again, this time he came over and joined me. This is when my dream began to get really REALLY realistic. I am a virgin, so i have no idea what sex itself feels like. But one thing led to another in the dream, and i could feel the pain, so realistically. I've been told the first time that you have sex, especially if you are tight, its uncomfortable and sometimes painful. The pains in my lower abdomen were so unbelievably realistic.
This is completely out of character for me too, i've been approached or had opportunities to have sex, but i wouldn't until i found someone worth losing it to, and i certainly wouldn't make the first move, nor do it whilst my family was around. Plus in my dream the guy i lost my virginity isn't the one i have feelings for in real life. every since that dream last night i haven't been able to stop thinking about, or trying to decode the meaning of my dream, and why it felt so realistic.
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I'm not a dream expert, but I usually find that my dreams are more or less quite literal.
Sex is all around you in the world you live in so it's not strange to dream about it. It could just be a way for your subconscious to express it's want for sexual desire. The person you did it with is someone you admire and in somewhat of a desirable way, so it would be fitting to release this sexual tension with him.
We can't control our dreams, they're just little bubbles from our subconscious coming up to the surface and popping. And also, just because you've never had sex doesn't mean that you can't vividly imagine the experience. Some people can dream of being shot and feel as if it's truly happening when they have no idea what that feeling is like.
In my opinion, you're coming to an age where sex bombards a lot of aspects of your life. Your dreams are just responding to this by expressing those desires and wants that you wouldn't normally feel or even be comfortable feeling.
Don't worry so much about it. Even if there is some hidden, underlying meaning, it's not cataclysmic. You will eventually and unknowingly pass the problem or issue in time.
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