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giving a gift
I am a 14 year old boy and my girlffriend is 1 month younger than me.I started going out with her about 1 month ago,and bought her a 70 dollar neclace for christmas.I am reallyserious about her,because we got alot in common.I wanna know if its to early,and will it look like im begging her if i give her it.
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I would give it a little more time before presenting her with a gift that is so expensive. $70 is spent on pretty special things. When you're 1 month into the relationship, especially at 14, things haven't gotten too serious yet.
Keep the necklace for another few months. It would make a nice gift for your 6 month anniversary, at the earliest.
Right now all you know about her is that you two like a lot of the same things. It's wonderful to share interests. The problem is that you haven't had any ups or downs with her yet. You haven't spent too much time with her just yet.
Give your relationship a little more time, at least 6 months (though, preferably, 1 year) before giving her something so pricey. Once you give it away, it's gone. And once you give her something really expensive, she may begin to expect luxurious gifts at every occasion.
So, don't spoil her just yet ;)
Give the relationship a little time.
Be happy you two are together, share some nice time together, and get to know each other before exchanging $70 presents ;)
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